In today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane hears from a woman whose husband constantly checks on where she is, even if she's asleep.

"Recently, he has become increasingly controlling, checking all my movements and whereabouts, even while we are both at home."

Your husband’s behavior is intrusive, possessive and controlling, like you said. It’s also odd that he’s started doing this out of the blue with seemingly no change in your marriage to warrant it. The next time you catch him checking up on you,